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Faith – Grandma – Christmas – Our Dementia Story

Faith – Grandma – Christmas – Our Dementia Story. Her name was Alice Jane Rowland Boudiette. She died when I was seven years and three days old but I remember her presence as if she were here with me now. Because she is here with me now. We gaze at the tree Jonathan and I decorated for Christmas this year and she takes my hand.

With Grandma I was Never Afraid. I remember how it felt to be with her. With Grandma I simply relaxed. Every instinct I possessed told me there was no reason to do otherwise. The angels in The Nativity Story reassure the shepherds. “Fear not.” Grandma reassured me back then. She reassures me now. She touches my hair and tells me not to be afraid.

Grandma’s Hair was Gray and Long. Mine is gray and short. She braided hers and wrapped it around her head like a halo. She wore rimless glasses for reading and needlework. A housedress every day but Sunday and an apron and service weight stockings and laced-up shoes with chunky heels. She smelled like bath powder and wore no jewelry I can recall. Not even a wristwatch.

Grandma Taught Me to Live a Good Life. By example more than with words. She radiated faith and lived her faith by doing service for others. She knitted mittens and scarves and hats for the needy children of the neighborhood. She cared for the sick with homemade poultices and medicaments. I have some of those recipes still and I treasure them. As I treasure Faith – Grandma – Christmas – Our Dementia Story.

Grandma Served the Church. She prepared the coffee hour which was held after Sunday service in the reception hall. A grand place with lots of dark mahogany wood and leaded glass windows and the smell left behind by decades of wax and polishing. My memories are of Grandma in the church kitchen humming hymns to chords from the pipe organ above.

Grandma Believed Deeply in God. She passed that belief on to me. By the example of her good and giving life. By the kindness of her heart. By teaching me to pray. We prayed together beside her tall bed mounded in white linen edged with the tatting she had worked herself. “Now I lay me down to sleep.” I strung out the “God blesses” to keep kneeling next to her longer.

Grandma Brought Me to Faith. I have never needed it more than I do this Christmas. Jonathan hung the ornaments on the tree. I arranged The Holy Family in their humble shed. Grandma was with us. Faith – Grandma – Christmas – Our Dementia Story.

LESSON LEARNED – Keep Faith Whatever May Occur. Have a Blessed Faithful Season.

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You possess storytelling magic. Keep on writing whatever may occur. Alice Orr. https://www.aliceorrbooks.com

Alice Orr. Teacher. Storyteller. Former Editor and Literary Agent. Author of 15 novels, 2 novellas, a memoir, and No More Rejections: 50 Secrets to Writing a Manuscript that Sells. Alice blogs for writers and readers at https://www.aliceorrbooks.com.

Alice’s Memoir is titled Lifted to the Light: A Story of Struggle and Kindness. At the beating heart of this moving story a woman fights her own disease disaster. All her life she has taken care of herself. Now she faces an adversary too formidable to battle alone. Available HERE.

Praise for Lifted to the Light: A Story of Struggle and Kindness: “I was lifted. I highly recommend this book as a can’t-put-down roadmap for anyone.” “Very, very well written. Alice Orr is an amazing author.” “Honest, funny, and consoling.” “I have read other books by Ms. Orr and am glad I haven’t missed this one.” “Couldn’t put it down.”

Alice’s Suspense Novel Series – the Riverton Road Romantic Suspense Series. Five intense stories of love and death and intrigue. Available HERE.

Praise for the Riverton Road Romantic Suspense Series. “Romance and suspense at its best.” “I highly recommend this page-turner series.” “Twists and turns, strong characters, suspense and passionate love.” “The writing is exquisite.”

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Ebenezer Scrooge – What A Character!

Ebenezer Scrooge – What A Character! Scrooge is the writer’s ideal holiday gift. He comes with the kind of bountiful writing that unwraps straight into your creative heart. That is why Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol is one of the best known and most popular stories in the world. Ebenezer teaches us how to get a dusting of that magic on our own storytelling shoes.

Ebenezer Scrooge has a Universal Theme. He is a holiday sparkling example of “How the Mighty Have Fallen.” Many of us create such characters ourselves. Dickens – the master storyteller – shows us how and why to move even deeper. Past a character’s downfall and on to “How the Mighty Have Fallen then Been Dragged Back Up Again.”

Ebenezer Scrooge is All About Redemption. In fact his story is one of Dramatic redemption because of the depth of the depravity pit into which he has plunged himself. His personal brand of human depravity has to do with compassion. He doesn’t seem to have any.

Ebenezer Scrooge Appears to Be Irredeemable. His perpetually scowling face. His heartless behavior. How scornfully he regards the caring world as a humbug. All are keys to his reader appeal. The more seemingly impossible the character’s redemption – the more dramatic the story. And drama – plus power and intensity – is the wellspring of storytelling success.

Ebenezer Scrooge is the Poster Boy for the Character We Love to Hate. Deep-down mean. Unrepentant. He betrays his beloved sister by disowning her son. He abandons his devoted fiance. He all but freezes his hardworking clerk out of their threadbare counting house. Nonetheless Dickens creates a believable protagonist – not a cartoon. Ebenezer Scrooge – What A Character!

Ebenezer Scrooge is Old Buddies with a Ghost. Not a happy and harmless Casper type ghost. A chain-clanking – shrieking – terrifying horror named Jacob Marley. Dead set – pun intended – on rattling Ebenezer out of his complacency into awareness of the doom he inevitably faces.

Ebenezer Scrooge Must Change. This is his story goal. It is also his problem – his inner conflict. He does not want to change. He is absolutely committed to his bad old ways. Dickens must dredge up some mega-dramatic story twist to reach Ebenezer’s darkly damaged soul and tell a powerful tale.

Ebenezer Scrooge is Haunted. A Christmas Carol is a redemption story but it is also a ghost story. Our heartless hero is forced by phantasms to witness himself. His past retreat from human feeling. His present coldness. How he affects other people and his world. The dire consequences ahead for him. Meanwhile the ghosts guide Ebenezer through fear to remorse and his own humanity.

Ebenezer Scrooge Rackets Us Relentlessly Forward. We tumble through tumultuous adventures at a whirlwind pace. We barrel toward a foreboding future – the vision of an untended grave. We race to keep up. All the way to the redemption of our formerly fallen hero. The perfect storytelling payoff.

Ebenezer Scrooge Does Not Disappoint. He gives us story satisfaction to the max. Joy so unrepressed it transforms his stony face into laughing eyes and a glorious grin. Generous deeds. Goodness and light. Life celebrated in every direction for everyone – including us. To which I say. Ebenezer Scrooge – What A Character! Thank you Mr. Dickens and “God Bless Us Every One.”

“Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts.” Winston Churchill. “You possess storytelling magic. Keep on writing whatever may occur.” Alice Orr  https://www.aliceorrbooks.com

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Celebrate the Season with Alice’s holiday novel A Vacancy at the InnRiverton Road Romantic Suspense Series Book 3Available HERE.

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Places Replenish Our Writer Souls

Places Replenish our Writer Souls. Reading stories aloud was a big deal when our grandchildren were growing up. Some of my favorite storyteller moments happened under the storytelling tree.

Our front yard featured a particularly family-friendly place. A yellow Adirondack chair fitted into a notch at a fence corner between two trees. I would sit in that chair with one grandchild at my side and another at my feet, and I would tell stories.

The way those two trees grew made me think of them as one. At ground level, they were far enough apart to accommodate a seat and small table. Further up, at about towhead height, they began to grow toward each other.

One day my grandson asked me about that. “What’s the story with the trees, Grandma.” He was staring at the place where the trees came almost together over my head, and he’d asked for a story. I gave him a story. Because that’s what grandmas and writers do.

“These trees were born close to each other under the ground, and they fell in love. When they grew above the ground and saw each other’s beauty, they fell in love even more. So much so that they couldn’t stand being apart and grew toward each other. Until they were side-by-side, with their branches entwined, reaching for the sky.”

The grandkids appreciated a good yarn and let me think they believed my tale. As for me, I believed every word with all my heart. Especially the feeling of it, which perfectly suited my yellow chair and that enchanting place. Because Places Replenish Our Writer Souls, and I definitely have one of those.

Stories have power. They lift and transport us out of real-life time and space into another universe, separate and apart. John Gardner called that universe “the dream of the story.” I believe in this lifting and transporting, but I also believe in places like the storytelling tree.

Places have power. Wherever we may be, we can picture ourselves somewhere else, like that notch in the fence at the corner of our front yard. We can take ourselves there, into the feel of it. The green branches overhead, the smell of grass and a child’s hair, the sound of birdsong on the soft air of late spring. The taste of contentment on the tongue. A feast for all of our senses as Places Replenish Our Writer Souls.

At bedtime in those days, I sat in another storytelling chair. Bright red, with a comfortable back cushion to ease me after delightful, exhausting hours surrounded by youthful energy. This chair stood between the dormers of the children’s bedroom, where the angles of the ceiling leaned toward one another, like the trees in the fence corner.

When I need a spirit boost, I take myself back to Christmas Eve in that red chair. There is a  stack of books at my side. My deliberate singsong tone has droned two excited children almost to sleep. I reach the last book on the pile and begin. “Twas the night before Christmas and all through the house…” To this day, that line transports me to the red chair under the dormers. Places Replenish Our Writer Souls.

You must tell your re-spiriting stories as well. Stories of places that lift you out of the moment. Places that come alive for you in every detail, if only in your imagination. Your heart is opened there. You are moved to bring us there as well. Because Places Replenish Our Writer Souls, and we deserve to be replenished.

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Speaking of Christmas, A Vacancy at the Inn is Book 3 of Alice’s Riverton Road Romantic Suspense Series, and it is a holiday story. Find A Vacancy at the Inn HERE.  Find all of Alice’s books HERE.

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